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Friendship Meter

How good of a friend are you?

This quiz helps you think about friendship as a pattern of presence, reliability, and responsiveness. It is useful when you want to know whether your care for people is translating into the kind of follow-through friendships actually feel.

Friendship looks different for everyone. Answer based on your typical patterns—no guilt trips.

15 questions 5 score bands 7 single • 4 multi • 3 range • 1 text

What this quiz helps with

  • Checking whether you are showing up in ways your friends can notice.
  • Reflecting on how friendship changes when life gets busy or stressful.
  • Identifying where stronger communication would support stronger connection.
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How good of a friend are you?

A quiz about loyalty, presence, and whether you actually reply when someone says “I need to talk.”

Q: 15Required: 14

Friendship looks different for everyone. Answer based on your typical patterns—no guilt trips.

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A friend texts: “Are you free?” You usually:

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2

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How do you show care?

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3

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How reliable are you with plans?

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FlakyReliable
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A friend is excited about something you don’t care about. You:

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Pick what you’re good at in friendships.

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If a friend is going through it, you:

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How good are you at keeping in touch over time?

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A friend gives you feedback. You:

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What’s one friend habit you’d like to improve?

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Pick your friendship challenges.

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When a friend succeeds, you:

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How well do you respect your own boundaries in friendships?

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13

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If you’re upset with a friend, you usually:

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What do you value most in friends?

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15

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Your friend energy in one line:

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Progress

Answered3 / 14

Total answers: 3 / 15

Evaluation

Complete the required questions and click evaluate.

The result recalculates instantly, so feel free to experiment.

How to read your result

Use the score to choose one friendship behavior to improve, such as initiating more often, replying with more clarity, or protecting time for people who matter. Friendship quality usually changes through consistency, not dramatic gestures.

Friendly Comet

☄️

0-19%

You care, but you’re inconsistent or overwhelmed. Your friendships benefit from small, steady check-ins.

Good Intentions Friend

📩

20-39%

You’re kind, but life gets in the way. When you remember to reach out, you’re genuinely great.

Solid Friend

🧡

40-59%

You’re supportive and generally reliable. People feel safe with you, even if you’re not perfect at timing.

Ride-or-Die Energy

🛡️

60-79%

You show up, you listen, and you care for real. People know you’ve got their back.

Bestie-Level Legend

🏆

80-100%

You’re consistent, emotionally aware, and actively supportive. You make friendship feel easy and meaningful.

Why this site exists

HowMuchAmI combines fast self-check quizzes with context pages that explain what a score can and cannot tell you. The goal is useful reflection, not inflated page count or empty result screens.

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